The Job Search Sucks

I guess it's been a while since my last post, but a lot has happened in the past few months that make me question different things primarily about the job search. Having graduated recently with a BS in Industrial and Systems Engineering, various outlets had said that finding a job would be easy. Graduating from a well-renowned institution would allow for a lot of opportunities with various employers. Well, it did open doors and interviews, but everything resulted in a dead end. This led me to thinking as to why it's hard to land a full-time entry-level position. For the most part, many of my peers returned to companies that they had previously interned with having had lucrative connections that allowed them to enter positions that were created for them. Other peers have decided to focus their efforts on alternative career paths either pursuing higher education or finding positions that suit more to their interests. What about those that don't know what to do?

Very often you will read about people especially millennials that decided to forge their own paths. Creative minds that decided to break away from their mundane careers and become self-starters (i.e. start-ups). But not every millennial is like those special few. Others find the routine 9 to 5 corporate job safe and comfortable, but obtaining such a lifestyle requires adhering to an older archetype of corporate America. One driven by standards, protocols, and profit-oriented mindsets. Many economic commentators would say that rather than profits, companies should focus on innovation and outreach. Developing products and people that will help shape the global economy. However, innovation and structure often butt heads. Innovation requires free-thinkers, those that are willing to step beyond the box and take risks. Structure requires those that are diligent and rule-followers. People that are more willing to adhere to the safety and constraints of simple aspirations.

As the world becomes more and more technology-infused, older generations find it hard to adapt. One can see this based on the amount of senior-level positions open in companies. Even certain staff positions require a minimum of 3-5 years of professional experience which is hard to muster for recent graduates. There we can see a dichotomy of the old vs the new. Old America not wanting to embrace the unique and innovative New America. Older generations feeling the pressure to conform to new standards and ideologies would rather shun new perspectives than embrace them. Moving the finishing line further and further to ensure that more and more millennials will never reach those final goals.

With these changing standards, what should millennials do? Well, embrace their difference and develop paths of their own. Why conform to old practices and behaviors especially fueled by a white American standard when there are markets and people that are much larger to appeal to? For example, the best example of this is large tech companies that embrace the diverse and look for the highly skilled. Although many have high turnovers in employees, the amount of success a young person obtains in a tech company does not compare if they had entered more traditional establishments. Start-up culture has allowed for more unique corporate lifestyles to emerge and provide an outlet for frustrated millennials that shun the traditional 9 to 5 office life. However, even within these environments, older practices are still rampant. The want and need for younger companies to appeal to older investors results in returning to older business models and familiarity in older practices. Therefore, what should the millennial do?

Embrace the old until the old becomes archaic. As seen in recent business news, large tech companies are fueled by the millennial economy. No longer is the Gen X or Baby-Boomer dollar worth much. Older archetypes do not embrace the new-age thinking of millennials which result in a major impact on corporate America. So, what does that mean for young job seekers? Embrace the unique and forge your own path. As millennials grow older and become a majority in the American economy, old methods of job searching and placements will change. No longer will people be judged on old standards such as experience or education, but rather applicable skills and innovative mindsets that bring value rather than profit. Therefore, to other millennial job seekers out there, hold on! Soon it will be out with the old and in with the new.

Mindless Rant 3 Years in the Making

I'm 22 now and about 6 months away from being 23. I started this blog when I was just 19 and had nothing else better to do with my spare time. I'm finding myself to be in that same position again. Starting over with a bunch of spare time. I've tried being vlogger, but I'm never comfortable with my body image. I've tried being an author, but structure is hard. I guess being a blogger may be the best fit cause I ramble as I speak so I ramble as a type.

I feel that my rants have become more verbalized specifically towards my friends and family, but just so I don't keep thinking to myself. I used to think to myself a lot, because no one wanted to listen to me or considered what I had to say. But as I learned to assert myself, I realized that people did listen and they took into account the things I was saying. I started feeling better until something I said didn't come out right...

It didn't come out right, it was ridiculed and dismissed, and people stopped listening. I was back to talking to myself. I was back inside my head with no one but that tiny voice I thought was replying back. Am I dumb? Am I stupid? I was always thought of to be smart, but why does everything I say get dismissed? Why does it seem like I'm the oddball? Why can't I be one of the rest? Why does it feel like I'm different?

6 months from being 23 and about 4 years since I started this, I can't still make out why I feel so peculiar compared to everyone else. I have friends that love to hang out with me. I have family that love me. But it hurts to feel alone and underappreciated. It hurts to not have someone there to care. And it hurts to be in my own head ALL THE TIME. Everything hurts and it doesn't seem to go away.

I hope this helps. I hope writing will help change things. I hope I can be happier again as I write things out. Maybe the voice inside my head will be appeased and I won't feel so uncomfortable anymore. Maybe as I continue to type, things will be better as it was the first time I started...

Woman Crush Wednesday

Since many people do Man Crush Monday, it's time to give the girls a little bit of A-T-T-E-N-T-I-O-N. Therefore, my Woman Crush Wednesday will be not based solely on physical features, but also the smarts and brilliance of amazing women from around the world. The honor of this post then goes to (drum roll please)...Natalie Portman. She's considered one of the smartest women in Hollywood with having a B.A. in Psychology from Harvard University and being fluent in multiple languages. Also, her performances are definitely top notch...who could forget Black Swan?
However, I loved her performance in Where The Heart Is and Star Wars. She's definitely made a mark and hopefully gracing our screens for years to come.
Love and Laughter,
LMS

Kill that damn Autotune!!

Hello Reader!

I'm sorry I haven't been posting these past few days, but I was busy with my summer class. Now that my class is over, I've got something that must be shared. AutoTune must be destroyed!! Some things are only good in small doses, but..but...see for yourself...
Like does every word have to be autotuned? Can't at least one of them sing normally? Ugh!! Here's another example...
And...
My ears are ringing with all that autotune. Can't we go back to the time when we had some decent music without mechanizing voices?
Always a classic...it's sad that we don't hear these kinds of voices anymore on the radio...

Oh well, at least we can enjoy the classics once our ears stop ringing from all that autotuning. I know mine are going to be ringing for days.

Love and Laughter,
LMS

Monday (7/21) Man Crush

In honor of one of my best friend's birthday, I'm going to be dedicating this blog to one of her man crushes, Armie Hammer. Ever since his role in the The Social Network, Armie has grabbed the hearts of thousands of young girls. So just to show how cute he is, here are some really cute Armie Hammer moments:

And how can we forget him in the Lone Ranger?


And here's something for the birthday girl...

Love and Laughter,
LMS

Spirit vs. Soul

Happy Sunday (yet again...although it's the same Sunday)!!! Having told you previously about what I categorize myself religiously, there are certain things that I feel are important when one talks about the soul. It's my personal belief that soul is part of our spirit. The soul and the spirit are considered the same thing, but sometimes when a person feels those out-of-body experiences, how can one tell whether that's the spirit or the soul?
Sometimes...I feel that the spirit and the body may not be as connected as some people may think. How else would people feel such realistic dreams? When the body is in a state of rest, the spirit (or the unconscious state of a person) may not be able to stay within the body. Therefore, one feels a weird sense of looking from the outside inward. They feel that they are looking at the situation from an outsider's perspective. So how does this connect with the soul?

The soul is just a part of our overall spirit. The soul involves our deepest desires and thoughts. It's the substance to which our spirit is comprised of and is the part that connects to a sense of higher being. When one has a strong soul, the spirit is considered to be lively and energetic thereby allowing the person to have an outgoing persona. When the soul is weak, the spirit is unable to keep itself going thereby making the person depressed or lethargic. Therefore, we must nurture our souls to ensure that our spiritual health as well as our physical and mental health are in check or otherwise this may happen...
Love and Laughter,
LMS

Sunday Soul Food

Happy Sunday!! It's that time of the week where we spend a few hours reflecting on the past week and figuring out what's going to happen in the upcoming few days. First, a small tidbit about me is that I was raised as an Indian Orthodox. I was baptized in the Indian Orthodox Church and spent most of my Sundays going to church and winning all the awards in Sunday School. So...you can say that I'm a devout Christian, but in recent times...I've become more of an agnostic.

Why this sudden change? I just got tired of feeling like a hypocrite and trying to please people that just seem fake in their devotion. But...to keep my parents happy, I do attend church and help with church activities. However, my personal belief is that one should be happy in any religion they wish to follow or lack thereof. It's important for me to reflect on my life and the decisions I've made as well as know what I need to do to make myself a better person. But one thing's for sure, I will NEVER EVER resort to this...
Love and Laughter, 
LMS